Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Paul Stam: What will the marriage amendment do

Let’s set the record straight:

1.  The Marriage Amendment will not adversely affect North Carolina’s economy.  A 2011report by the American Legislative Exchange Council ranked states by economic performance between 1999 and 2009 and by economic outlook.  8 of the top 10 economically performing states have marriage amendments. None have legalized same sex marriage, civil unions or domestic partnerships.  9 of the 10 states forecasted to have the poorest economic growth have legalized same sex marriage, civil unions and/or domestic partnerships.

2.  The Marriage Amendment Will Not Affect The Enforcement Of Domestic Violence Laws.  Opponents would have you think the Amendment obliterates our domestic violence law.  The cases they use as authority are Ohio appellate cases later overturned by the Ohio Supreme Court which found the domestic violence statutes consistent with the state’s marriage amendment.  In Kansas the outcome was the same.  Marriage amendments have had no effect on the enforcement of domestic violence statutes.  30 other states have marriage amendments.  In all 30 states domestic violence laws continue to be enforced. I have read and reread our domestic violence statutes.  I am unable to even comprehend the logic of this objection.

3.  Legally Recognizing Only Heterosexual Marriage Isn’t Discrimination Against Homosexuals Wanting To Marry. Marriage between a man and a woman has existed in virtually every known society. It has served the purpose of channeling procreative sexual activity into an institution which will provide a stable environment for children produced from the sexual union of the partners in marriage. Recognizing that heterosexual marriage has provided the best environment for the rearing of future citizens North Carolina has regulated marriage for at least 340 years.   Same sex marriage is an entirely different relationship with a completely different purpose.  Expanding the marital institution to other relationships which serve completely different purposes ultimately undermines the institution which has proven to be the best and safest environment for children.

4. The Amendment Will Not Nullify Medical Powers of Attorney (MPOAs), Wills and Trusts if the parties are homosexual partners.

Under G.S. 32A-18 “any competent person who is not engaged in providing health care to the principal for renumeration, and who is 18 years of age or older, may act as a health care agent.”  The relationship between the patient and the designated agent does not matter. The intent of the testator and trustor is the “gold standard” in NC for interpreting wills and trusts.  The Amendment does not change the intent of the testator in either type of these instruments.  The Amendment explicitly states that it will not affect the rights of parties to enter into private contractual agreements.

5. The Marriage Amendment Will Not Determine the Custody and Visitation Rights of Unmarried Parents Unless Their Behavior Affects the Child.  Custody orders are based on the “parent”/child relationship, not on the domestic relationship between the “parents”.  Courts have based custody and visitation on the “best interest of the child.” NCGS 50-13.2(2007)  The sexual behavior of the party petitioning for custody or visitation is not determinative except as it affects the child.

The “de facto parenting doctrine” was applied in 2010 in Boseman v. Jarrell.  The Supreme Court refused to allow adoption to an unmarried same sex partner but did award joint custody and visitation rights to that non-biological same sex partner who had become a de facto parent to the child.

I see that Stam is working with the bigots and haters, who would kick their own kids out on to the streets if they are gay..

For those whom don’t know what might happen or for those who wants more information

see below

The Truth

Download "The Truth About the Marriage Amendment TODAY!
AND VOTE AGAINST THIS AMENDMENT ON MAY 8, 2012.

remember May 8 is when we vote on this Amendment,lets make NC the first State in the South to say we don’t need this amendment..

 

 

Also NCVC speaker Tami Fitzgerald, Chairwoman of Vote FOR Marriage NC  is so sure this amendment will pass

“We are confident that the federal courts in North Carolina will uphold a state amendment defining marriage as the union of one man and woman,” said Fitzgerald. “We are not California, fortunately. However, our definition of marriage is vulnerable until we put it into our state constitution. That’s what the Marriage Protection Amendment will do. We hope this ruling serves as a powerful reminder to voters that we must make sure activist judges cannot redefine marriage in our state.”

Hey Tami What will your group do if  the amendment is voted down.. What will you little sick we are be oppressed Christian group do ? Since you won’t be able to ask the courts for help.. Once voted down, I’m sure the NC people won’t waste time and money to put it back on the ballot..

0 comments:

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...